Couple … yes. Perfect … perhaps. Loving? Get real! I am a very sexual, very sensual, and very bisexual man and why on earth I married a woman whos... idea of sexual relations was a ten minute semi-annual event I will never know! After our son was born, the idea of sex was the furthest thing from her mind (sex was just for making babies she told me.) We disagreed, we argued, we went to counseling. I had long term affairs and many one night stands. From an insider’s viewpoint, by the time the. Martin went to go to the restroom and as he got out of his chair, he moved to stand behind Jen. He moved his hands along her shoulders and down to her breasts and he gently squeezed them as he bent forward to kiss her and she groaned with pleasure.While he was in the bathroom, Jen gave me a few details about her night of sex with her black lover.“Trevor, his tongue licked me everywhere and he teased my clit for over thirty minutes with his tongue before he licked me out,” Jen trembled. “He is. I have never told you about them because I was not ever going to do anything with them. About two weeks after you told me your fantasy, Tom and I were alone in the break room. He asked, for at least the twentieth time, if he could take me to lunch. He said it with a grin knowing that I would turn him down. I like Tom. He is a nice person. He is single and nobody in the office has anything bad to say about him. It took him nearly two whole minutes to get over the shock when I agreed.”“Just. ” Another hesitation as I considered the options. “Spitting contest.” It was her turn to raise an eyebrow. “Odd, but I’m in. And the loser?” “Loser sleeps naked.” “Let’s head outside then so we can use the sidewalk in front of the complex to mark where the spit lands. And thank you for not suggesting a pissing contest.” I lost, by nearly four inches of distance. Kristen was already in bed when I came into the bedroom. To my relief, the light was already off and she was facing away from me. I.