Usually it was so silly, I'd just laugh, and he would catch on and change his tune. And I could talk to Mom and Dad the same way. If I didn't agree wi...h something they told me, Dad would say, "You check this out, and tell us what you think." And I would, and we would argue and discuss until we came up with something we could all live with.Dad once said, "The most important thing is keeping our family together and happy. Next to that is getting you kids ready to live in the world as it is, not. Die Erschrockenheit und Panik, mit der ich meine Hand zurück zog und mit der Stefan seine Kleider hektisch sortierte, machten ihm sofort die Verfänglichkeit dieser Situation klar. Er hätte sofort gewusst, dass dies niemand erfahren dürfe, beichtete er mir noch am selben Abend im Bett. Er würde seinen geliebten Bruder nicht verpetzen.In den Haselnusssträuchern jedoch fragte er erst mal ganz naiv: „Was macht ihr da?“ Als Antwort bekam er eine Aufklärung zum Thema Sex, die er gebannt in sich. We kept working and soon it was evening. I was tired and said would like to go back and rest. She smiled again and said ok, calling our cab. We returned and I rested for a while. Then we met in the lobby for dinner.It was just the two of us at dinner, so it gave an opportunity to talk beyond work. I learnt that she was staying only with her mother. She had recently gone through a bad phase as she broke her engagement. There was some disturbance in the family due to that and that’s why she was. Mom waited awhile then asked, “Are you kids doing anything that you shouldn’t?”Stacey said, “If you are asking us if we are still virgins, YES, we are both still virgins.”Mom blushed and said, “I’m sorry…I just thought…I’m sorry!”We roasted a few marshmallows and Mom poured four shots of Aunt Mary’s Peach Brandy. We all sipped it and talked about how wonderful it was here.Stacey and I made our nightly walk to the latrine ditch and watched each other pee. Then we got in our tent. To our surprise.