Cathy explained that because I had always acted like a gentleman, (ME???) that she had wanted to reconnect. When she saw me at her show she was stunne... and pleased.After that afternoon coffee, Cathy and I dated for about four months and then it happened; she asked me to stay the night with her. I said no. I explained that I had fallen in love with her, but until we mutually decided to be exclusive, there would not be any sexual intimacy. I said, “I want you, but I don’t feel comfortable with. Ricky had all this down to a science and quickly finished his station. He told Jeff he was out of there and clocked out. Because of his talents in making pizza he held a little status in the kitchen and was able to leave before anyone else. Steve would take over making any late orders and the salad boy would be responsible for cleaning the counters and floors. Ricky walked through the now nearly empty dining room and then into the men’s room. He stripped off his sweat soaked uniform and. She again eagerly asked what he asked. I said that he asked whether I am virgin, whenI masturbated last time. She asked be what does that mean (she pretended as if she don’t know). I kept silent making her to ask again and that happened she asked me what his masturbate bla bla… I acted as if am telling in shy and just told her that it means “self sex” rubbing the penis and ejaculating some liquid. Now she understood what I was talking about. She asked me then what you said. I came to know that. I made the first move. I knew Cliff now. I knew he was the ultimate gentleman. He might never raise the subject if I didn't let him know it was alright. When we were sitting in Shadows late one evening on a Friday night I put my hand on his leg beside me. I ran my hand up his thigh and touched his private area. I felt it start to get hard. I had never done this. I was a little afraid, but I loved him, and needed him. "Cliff, I know this is forward of me. I am a lady. But I have needs. Please.