Dave stepped in, “Yes and no. I’ll give my own answer, but others in our group might give a more definitive answer on either side of the coin. I t...ink of swingers as engaging in sex for its own sake. One author years ago called it a zipless fuck; hike you skirt up, let’s fuck, goodbye. I like to think that I’m either in or about to be in a longer-lasting relationship.“From the outside looking in, the results may look the same. Two people meet, chat briefly, and then make love. From the inside,. Their lips parted, tongues flicked apprehensively. Lyn opened her mouth to allow Dots probing tongue. I want to make love to you too, Lyn. I know, replied Lyn as she cupped Dot s ass in her hands. I know. I m game, baby. They were all famished. It was slow in coming but the dinner was hurried, either by hunger or anticipation, but it was devoured quickly. They lingered over coffee just long enough to enjoy their after dinner drinks. Conversation about their afternoon was mostly avoided because. Samuel leans forward, reaches out and presses a hand into Veronica’s thigh. He slides his hand across her sweaty thighs, just above her stockings, to cup her pussy. Samuel closes his eyes and just feels the heat and softness of her pussy. Her feet are crossed and hanging deliciously close in front of him. He starts squeezing his hand on her pussy, pressing his fingers around her swollen pussy lips and running his fingers back and forth across her clit.Soon his fingers are coated with her. So why does this still turn me on when having sex with or fantasizing about my wife? Well, the sheer numbers - my fantasy was of her as a true slut, porn star, or professional whore.And she pretty much engaged in enough encounters, and in some cases, WE engaged in enough encounters, that I will probably have fantasy material for life.So before diving into some specific great moments, I thought I would share some statistics, just to see how we may or may not compare to others in "the lifestyle"..