I really don't like to reveal my age because I am already past that vibrant age of virginal anticipation and not quite at the stage where I am despera...ely seeking spousal stability. I have had a varied sexual history that included experimentation with both males and females and I have been both dominant and submissive in my demeanor.It is true that I attended a rather prestigious institution of higher learning and earned degrees of academic standing far beyond the average person one would meet. As you want to be treated, so treat others. The Dominant wants his submissive to respect him and his authority. (There is a South Park joke to be made but it would be inappropriate just now.) The Dominant, therefore, should respect his submissive and her submissiveness.What does it mean to respect the submissive and her submissiveness? It means learning the ways the submissive desires the Dominant and his control. It means talking to the submissive and learning what her submissiveness means to. I tried to keep Sofia close out of self-defense, but it didn’t really work. For a few of the slow dances, the girls were really dancing close — Mary Harrison close. Given that they were all twelve or thirteen, The ABBA song, Does Your Mother Know kept running through my mind.I can see what you want; But you seem pretty young to be searchin’ for that kind of fun; So maybe I’m not the one; Now you’re so cute, I like your style; And I know what you mean when you give me a flash of that smile; But. He always said to her that she was turning me into a girl, that I hadmy hair too long, that I was too feminine, and always delicate, andthat the only thing that was left was for me to wear a dress and carryand doll.Those fights always ended the same way, Mom was left crying and Dadwent to drink.I knew that I was different then, because in my first grade the kidscalled me sissy and other things, I had only girl friends to play withbecause the boys didn't want to play with me.I didn't care any.