But, between us, we have seven children making conversations about relocating improbable.There was one night, not so long ago, where Lynn and I were o...t to dinner together, drinking more than a few bottles of wine - not an unusual occurrence for us.This night, in particular, was just one of those glorious summer nights – warm, still, and seemingly endless. There we were sitting on a patio together sipping our wine savoring the meal we shared.’We are both in our mid-forties, but neither of us. I leave my office and walk down the corridor and soon realize that I am completely alone. The quiet is so welcoming after a day of challenges. My iPod is a welcome companion and I put on my earphones and select shuffle. A soft slow song starts off, its just easy listening with almost no effort from my part. As the beat of the music slowly breaks down the barriers in my mind it takes me somewhere else I go on the hunt of an elusive cup of coffee. I find the coffee flasks in the kitchen and. Lissa kissed me back soundly.“You know, sometimes I just like the lips that are next to me and forget all about the ones I dream of,” she said. “I love you, Tony.”“I love you, Lissa.” We kissed again. “Let’s go see what our lover has brought home to us.”“Oh, lovers,” Melody moaned after about an hour of kissing and caressing us. “Do you know what I discovered today?”“What, Little One?” Lissa asked.“I discovered that we don’t hold hands enough. We parked in Winslow about noon and walked all. .you know that. But this new look...DAMN!" I said.He went on to explain that shortly after we split he started feeling sluggish and didn't have the stamina that he once did. He went to a couple of doctors who told him that all of his tests came back normal. Finally he heard a commercial for a male wellness clinic and decided to make an appointment. They ran some tests and determined that his testosterone was within normal limits for his age but was very low, so he started hormone replacement.