By the time we returned I couldn’t even stand up straight from the pain and cramps.By the time I got home the pain was so intense I told my wife tha... I needed to go to bed and see if lying flat would bring me any relief. After about an hour, the pain just built up, becoming the worst pain I have ever experienced. My wife, who was out in the barn, could hear my screaming all the way out there almost 100 yards from our house. She came in and I told her I needed an ambulance to get me to the. They kept looking at the pile of rock, the changed contours of the canyon walls, and back at Tom. I had no doubt that this little demonstration, more than anything else, convinced them that their way of life was going to change as I had said it would.Our next chance to strengthen the relationship with the cousins occurred a few days later. We stopped by their camp and dropped off two antelopes Yolanda had shot during our morning ride. Miguel accepted the gift with thanks, and invited us to. There just didnʼt seem to be anyone who knew her well, certainly not well enough to kill her.“There has to be a connection between these two women,” insisted Linda.“I agree,” replied Sheila,“but so far I canʼt find one. Besides living in different towns, there is nothing to indicate they knew each other, Landry was Baptist and Connors a lapsed Catholic. They obviously didnʼt shop at the same stores. Connors was a stay-at-home and didnʼt belong to any kinds of clubs or groups so no connection. My job is to make sure that doesn’t happen for a long, long time! Which is why I talk to you about smoking.”I nodded, “Except that’s not what you do, Babe. You lecture. You don’t talk. Maybe that’s good for teaching medical students or PGY1s, but it sure as heck isn’t how to have a relationship. And, if you’ll pardon my intrusion into your little club, I think medicine would be better served by talking rather than lecturing.”“That’s how you handle almost everything.”I smiled, “Yes. How much.