And, ummm, then I started changing the audio helistened to at night. Look, I just wanted him to go out with the guy soI could have some alone time wit... Jacques, okay? I guess I wentoverboard.So, I worked on him enough -- he really resisted -- that he finallyagreed to go out on a double date with me and Jacques and his brotherPeter. He, ummm, listened to a full week of audio where he, well, gotturned on by shy guys and wanted to flirt with them and ... other stuff.I had no idea if it would work,. "What do you mean !" she demanded "Ahh so you do have some assertiveness in you!" the lady let out a slight laugh "For such a submissive young lady" "E-excuse me ?!" Miranda retorted "Who are you calling submissive !" "oh we do have some spirit in you then ?!" it was a retorical question and the lady went on " Well my dear you are a fascinating little creature !" Miranda was flabbergasted and blurted out "I'm not a creature i'm a you woman thank you very much and yes I do have some spirit in me. ? Her relationships were found unfulfilling andthere was just a huge void in her life that she couldn?t figure out.She had stumbled across some BDSMsites and soon saw so many of her own traits here.? So she went to one of those online sites totalk with others like her.? It was agreat thing, she learned so much, and met such interesting people. Jon had been in the lifestyle formany years.? At 36, he?d been around thatblock and was becoming burnt out of the scene.?He went to the sites out of. He thought I didn't take him seriously and that's why he came after me with a BMW car and $ 500 in his pocket, to impress me and for me to see that he was a serious boy. He didn't think I was going to be so scared.- Now it really doesn't matter ... he added ... I keep my proposal but if you refuse me then know that I'm not upset. Upstairs is a dressing room full of his wife's clothes, her shoes, makeup make-up ... all the way he left them. My wife didn't need those things anymore, she never.