Herbert was a precedent that allows everything to be admittedas evidence. After they had left Thaddeus asked her if she had really put herhusband in ...he needle cage. She said she was so angry with him thatshe had. She said she saw her husband doing women's work and thatit surprised her that he was such a wimp she just had to make himbe the man she thought she had married. He had allowed himself tobe humiliated and it was a disgrace to her. Thaddeus told her there wasn't a judge he knew who. He had a huge garden. All sorts of produce, potatoes, beans, peas, corn and lots of tomato plants. He picked a couple of biggies and I said, “That’s good, thanks.” He said, “I’ll get a bag from the garage for them.” I followed him into the garage. He pulled out a bag from a bag of baggies and put the tomatoes inside. I reached to shake his hand and thank him. While our right hands were occupied and his left hand held the bag, my left hand went down to his crotch and gave his genitals a slight. There seemed to be no time for us. Our sex life became almost nonexistent. I tried to talk about it with her, but most of the time she is too tired to talk to me.When Christmas holidays arrived, she did a complete 180. She became sex starved and we fucked like bunnies. Not that I complained, but I could not figure out her mood swings.Things were ok through January, but when February arrived, she became withdrawn. From the middle of February, through the end of March, we had sex maybe once a. Besides, I wasn't spying on anyone. If you don't want people finding out that you are fucking your cousin, Lydia, maybe you shouldn't be doing it out in the open like this."As I was saying this to her, I walked over to the patio and grabbed my mitt off the small table. All I wanted to do now was leave and forget everything I'd seen in the last few minutes. To that end, I turned and started walking back past them, hoping to make my getaway before anything else got said."You aren't going to tell.