It's a good one." It's the way I try to live my life. It's the way I think God would want us all to act." I'll agree with you there," Shack said with ... big smile.I talked with Jon Vencille for a while and he told me almost the same things as Shack had. Both boys were very quiet and I figured their upbringing was responsible for that. Jon confided in me that he would eventually like to get married."I don't want it to be like the kind of marriage mom and dad had though," he said. "I want it to be. On my friend's last visit to him he mentioned what we were thinking and he was delighted - apart from masturbating in his cell, he had no intimate company since he went in. This was three weeks before he was released and Jeff, my friend, told him to refrain from wanking as he was in for a treat! Jeff knew Colin had been with a few TVs before he went inside and knew he would love what we had in store.The weekend before Colin's release, I went shopping! I wanted something classy, but a real hint. Facing the headboard, my Father In-law was sleeping on the left half and my Mother In-law was on the right side. It must be some kind of a man thing because that is how my wife and I sleep.For a brief moment I thought about turning off the bathroom light. I sat down on the edge of the bed to remove my shoes and pants and noticed my Mother In-law was lying on her left side, facing me. As I removed my shoes I thought her eyes were open but a second glance into her face and they were closed. The. A Black man is President of the United States of America. A Black man is Governor of New York. A Black man is Governor of Massachusetts. There are Black men and Black women representing various states as in the Halls of Congress. Both Republicans and Democrats. Yet there have never been a time when the Black community has been divided. And I place the blame squarely on the shoulders of Black women themselves. Why? Simply because, when racist White women and racist White men conspire to weaken.