This time however Sandy picked up on my reticence and after a couple of months she said, "What's the matter Paul, you don't want to marry me?"The trut... was that I didn't want to marry anybody, at least not at that time, but how to put it off gracefully? I decided to tell Sandy the truth and surprisingly she seemed to understand."It isn't me, right? You just want to wait?" Yes honey, I just want to wait."Another year went by and then one night at dinner Sandy hit me with, "It is time to shit or. As he had managed to secure a living from his patron for his previous hard-working curate, he was now breaking in a raw and new recruit. Unfortunately, this young man was as nervous as he was inept and Tobias seemed to spend most of his time covering for him and saving him from the wrath of his critical churchwarden.Then Jamie had a spate of bad nights that Lucy thought might herald the start of teething. As a result, both Lucy and Tobias were red-eyed and somnambulant during the day.What with. "Get up," Sara said. "We're going to the gym."I told them to go without me, I was fine where I was — wrapped around Bailey.But Bailey elbowed me in the ribs."Get going," she said. "Beth's down there with the kids alone anyway. I'm getting up, too."So Sara and Suzette added personal trainer to their list of responsibilities. We hadn't finished the basement project, so it was off to a local facility for the first couple of weeks. They took it upon themselves to whip my sorry behind into shape,. I always thoughtthat Christine Jorgenson was the first back in the early fifties and shehad it done in Denmark," Jackie responded."I guess they must have had it down pat earlier. Samuel or Sylvia didn'twant any publicity so she may have become one of the first who had itdone. I'm sure that she wasn't the pioneer on this because of theunknown back then." Let me find out more. Sarah seems to write a lot more about it thanSylvia."Sarah had called a Doctor Isador Feinstein in Mexico who assured.