The occasion never arose when I was married to you." Nine years I was married to you and I'm just now finding out things I wasn't aware of. There wasn...t another woman was there?" She said this jokingly, so I knew she wasn't serious. She would have been extremely surprised if there had been. As I say, we had been true to each other while married."No, but there could have been. I took my vows seriously, and you knew that. Why are we having this conversation?" No reason I guess." Neil Fortier and. You must avoid becoming inebriated at all costs. You cannot get out of control because your accepting, submissive behaviour may slip. Encourage your wife to drink more alcohol, share a bottle of wine with her and make sure she drinks the lion's share. Be prepared for her being more self centred and less kind to you when in drink. You may find out what she really thinks about you and at this stage it may be hurtful. You will be sober. Take it on the chin. Do not react. Your best strategy is to. She would be bold, she knew exactly how to get back at him. How and where to hurt him. She would ring personnel and let them know what a scumbag he was.He would lose his job. He was three years off retirement. She would lose out too. They’d lose his pension, possibly their home. She really couldn’t hurt him anyway. She still loved him. Despite his cruelty. Then, one could notice how her thoughts changed as the burden of the anger slumped her shoulders and the determined look on her face. "Tommy quickly stood and undressed, as Becky removed her blouse and white lace bra, tossing them on the floor with her skirt and panties. He stood there a moment admiring the view of her lush, exposed body. "You've lost some weight, haven't you baby? You sure look great!"Becky nodded and said, "Thank you. I have lost about twenty pounds. I've been dieting since I heard you were coming home so I would look good for you." Baby, you didn't have to do that. You already looked good to me before, but.