If your lover is a woman, be totally present with tender gazes, loving words and affectionate touch.A man’s body is built so that first comes sexual...flow, then emotional openness. For most men, overtly sexual touch quickly opens their heart when it is closed. But a woman’s body is built so that first comes emotional openness, then sexual flow. That is, most women don’t want to open sexually until they are first open emotionally.For masculine essence-men, energy opening comes first, then. Sarah was smitten by him right away and on Christmas he and I ended up having sex with our lovers on the couch in the living room while we watched a movie on TV. A few days later Danny invited us to a naturist New Years Eve party at his parents’ house. Danny’s parents were naturist. Keri and I talked it over and after she calmed my nerves several times we agreed to go.We dressed casually and when we arrived at Danny’s parents’ home we were warmly greeted by both clothed and nude people. A nude. It was about 8pm when I went to his house. I saw Tiana was wearing white tank top with no bra watching and a pajama. She said hi and hugged me and kissed me on the left of my cheek. At that point I got hard. I went to Fry' room and we played card for about 30 minutes. He said he was sleepy already. I told him I will go to the bathroom. When I was done peeing in the bathroom I returned to the bed room. His dad hugged me and went to work. So it was just the three of us in the house now. I. ..or we wear the costumes." She gave me a funny look. "Do you know how much work we'd have to do to make you presentable in that costume?" She picked it up, smoothing out the short skirt. "I mean, it's easy for me to wear that football uniform; no real work required there. But to get you ready to wear this cheerleader outfit - I just don't know." She looked at me. "How badly do you want to go to this? We could just stay home, you know." "Joey's leaving tomorrow for Europe. We.