It came up over dinner with them after copious wine. The wife made a joke about it and the husband kind of brushed over it and moved the conversation ...n.I rang the husband to get the details of the masseuse, to check if he did remedial and to ask if he was any good. He said the guy was flexible, which at the time I thought meant his hours and ability to do home visits. He said remedial was on offer but that they ended up getting something different. Our friends are quite private so I knew not. She has a not to skimpy because of her age 2 piece suit on that shows a lot of cleavage to her now saggy but big nippled 36Cs. I see him noticing and see her grin as she does too.I ask him if he wants to go for a boat ride and we will show him the lake and he says he does. We get in the boat and they set on the back seat while I drive. They are making small talk and getting along well. he tells her he thinks she is very attractive and she thanks him for the compliment but she is old enough to. Once he got over the shock, he actually took it pretty well; I think he must have known I was unhappy. We agreed to wait until summer, after school was over.Apparently Brian thought about it and figured out that the only thing wrong with our marriage was my overactive libido. Two months after we agreed to separate, he came to me."Kathy, do you remember Connie Sutherland?" What about it?" I asked, not sure why he was asking. 'Connie Sutherland' was the name on a fake ID that I used when I was in. She sat and leaned against me. "Do you know why I didn't tell you Mandy was wrong?"She took a deep breath and let it out. "At first I thought you wanted me to keep believing you were queer because you wanted me to keep ... that you wanted to be able to keep looking at me naked." That's what Ricky thinks."She straightened. "Why?" That's what I told him."Her sudden frown was caused by puzzlement, not anger. "Why would you tell him that?" You tell me."She thought about it. "I don't know," she said.