It’s common for people to question the motives and reasons behind doing these things, and these challenges should be encouraged. If you can’t expl...in why what you are doing is right, and rooted in respect, then you have no business doing these things in the first place.The concept behind a power-exchange relationship is based in respect and the earnest desire to be a positive, healthy, mate. Pain, degradation, and humiliation are all tools used for emotional manipulation. When and how you use. ..a...cowboy...OHGODYES..." she hissed as Jimmy's dick tore through her cunt, her legs wrapping around his waist as he pulled off her shirt and started sucking on her tits."That's what all city girls say," he teased her as he started sharply thrusting into her, her walls putting the squeeze on his dick as she started to cum for him."Gonna cum for me city girl?" he teased her when he felt her cumming all over his dick, burying his dick deep inside of her and holding himself there as he started. Unfortunately, still being of the male sex, my brain has a tendancy to be distracted by numerous things including (but no where near limited to); shiny objects, inspecting any kind of dark mark on the wall thinking it may be a bug, nudity, chocolate, coffee and playing with the cat; who at times like these decides she's very cute and needs attention. So half and hour has gone by and my mum comes home. Now the key part of this situation : In order to go into the bathroom, one has to walk through. " With ice?" No, that won't be necessary." Okay, one glass of water coming up" and I headed for the bathroom.As I headed for the bathroom I pondered, and not for the first time, what it was that causes human beings to do the things they do. What was it that caused people to do things so far out of line with their character? Here I was, a man who considered himself a 'manly man' and I was running around saying "Yes dear" to my wife and waiting hand and foot on the smirking black asshole who was.