They would all survey the congregation to see what reactions they could pick up."Not," pointed out Harry, "that negative reactions in the church neces...arily indicate the problem is among the congregation. But ... it's a place to start."Dulcie and Peter were aware that ordained women were not universally welcomed in the church, and the 'high' Anglo-catholic St. Mary's had their share of objectors. (Two men in particular were observably hostile as Dulcie began the service and later were. One afternoon the wife and I had an argument and in a jealous rage she decided to fly home to mom. Once she left I started looking through the yellow pages for gay clubs in the area and that night called a place locally. I spoke with the bartender who was really nice. I told him I wanted to hook up with someone and he said I should just come over and I'd definitely be able to score. I explained how closeted I was and how I couldn’t risk the possibility of running into someone from work and. "He?" Tom asked, "Some guy beat you up?"I nodded in response. Tom seemed to get pretty pissed off about thatand ranted for a few minutes about how guys have no business hittinggirls. It hadn't really dawned on me and I was just as much an advocate of that as he was. I guess I still didn't really think of myself as agirl."So why did he do it?" Mrs. Taylor asked, seeming suspicious that Imight have been part of the catalyst for the fight.I explained what had happened my first day at school with. I grabbed her rear and pulled her close. Then I pulled up her dress and pushed her panties off, saying you don’t really need these. She was a bit surprised but went with it. My wife was a little uncomfortable all night at dinner knowing everytime she stood up that there might me a risk of someone getting a free show. However, she also found this erotic. We ate a wonderful dinner at a local tapas place, then we decided to go for a walk. Every few blocks we would stop and make out. I would.