It happened a few times when I was a teenager – more or less because of your husbands problem – they came before I was even close. Look I said I s...mpathise with you – leave it with me and give me your phone number and I can get in touch after I have spoken to them. In particular Tom the guy you seem to prefer. If he does then I guarantee you will be more than satisfied. But don’t contemplate a quickie where you do it once and say bye bye – he is not like that – they are all stayers and will. Our sex lifewas never an issue, because as needy as I was, she was even more so attimes as it was probably the strongest part of our relationship whetherwe'd admit it or not. I always thought though there was probably afuture together but that really wasn't that important to either of us atthis time of our lives after college which was barely in the rear viewmirror.A week went past without much discussion about Halloween, as more of theconversation was focused on the two year anniversary of our. As I carried in my bags and engaged in conversation, I looked around the house. No box. Had it not come? Did it not ship yet? Was it lost in the mail? Who cares?! A feeling of relief came over me. My surprise purchase was not discovered and this could remain my little secret. The next day I went back to life as normal and figured I would grab the package when it came next week. Thank God!That night, my wife and I climbed into bed for the evening. It wasn't unusual for us to make love on. This was not anger, just annoyances and it boiled over one Wednesday morning after Andy had driven Izzy to her school ten miles away.Rhea had taken that opportunity to speak to Andy about his excessive drinking, and the lifestyle he chose to lead. From Rhea's perspective, she did not think it was healthy and would have been nagging him about this earlier had she known, but sharing the same house meant that she had to live with it and this was something she was not prepared to do.Simon was.