”Then I saw a glimmer of light. If she thought that negatively about masturbation, showing her foreplay would be out of the question.“Foreplay is ...ery similar except your partner does the playing. Since you think it is dirty we can stop right here.”“No, we don’t. I want to learn about foreplay. With you doing the touching it won’t feel dirty to me. What do I have to do?”“Are you sure really sure? I don’t think we should do anything if you are uncomfortable. You may have to do things you may not. I knew that feeling myself. I hope she keeps hers around for years to come.After the visitation period ended, we took Gee’s mom to dinner. We offered her a stay with us at our house but she refused. I understand that sentiment. Gee and I went home.She sat on the sofa. When she did, Pickles jumped from his perch on a windowsill with a view of the back yard and jumped up on the sofa with her. He laid his big fuzzy head on her thigh, extended a paw and touched her knee.“He knows something’s. Who knew this man I once loved had such hatred in him? After Timothy, I focused on school and work, and didn’t feel like giving any man, Black or White, the time of day. Until I met Jean-Francois Heureux. A tall, good-looking young Black woman originally from the island of Haiti. Jean-Francois moved to the City of Montreal, Quebec, with his parents a while back. He graduated from McGill University with a Law degree and was now working for a big firm in the City of Gatineau, Quebec. At the time. Life for us was a bit of a struggle, but it seemed that things were getting better. I had my friends and Hae had a couple of wives that lived nearby that she associate with, none were Korean. One, Soon Lee, was of Asian descent, (I think Taiwanese) and several were Vietnamese. The Vietnamese ladies kind of stuck together, but they and a few others had a kind of support / card playing group that met once a month. I don’t absolutely know that all of the Asian women she associated with were former.