Guess we both did a good job of hiding our feelings because our son Sam and our daughter Sara were completely devastated. So much so, they drew tighte... to each other as if their very existence revolved around just them. The first six months of the divorce went by in a flash, too much to do and too little time did not allow for much extracurricular activities. Had just three dates and one spontaneous encounter. That spontaneous encounter is key though to what eventually happened. Sam was in the. She was around 5’7″ long having a figure of 38-26-38. She was working with a BPO company on a good position. I hardly think that there might be anyone so beautiful other than her. Her father was a service man & got retired one day. I always use to think about her. In fact I loved her very much. After retirement they shifted to some another place which is somewhat 20 km away from my house.After couple of months I heard that her marriage is fixed & her prospective husband lived in California. I. She had a daughter from another marriage kind of like our situation. Her husband was an ass as well and left them right after her daughter was born. I guess their similar situations allowed them to lower their guards enough to start a new life together. Diane is great and Dad is as happy as he has ever been. Her daughter, my step-s****r Helen, is 18 and in her senior year at St. Catherine’s. She’s a good k** and studies hard. As the big b*****r I try to tell her that all of her sacrifices now. He began to gently probe deeper into why I had made the choices I had. What had brought me to this place. There was no judgement just understanding. I shared with him my love for my husband and my hurt at feeling rejected sexually by him. He encouraged me to not give up on my marriage, and if necessary to be the sexual pursuer of my husband. He told me to focus on what I could do, not what my husband wasn't doing. He made suggestions, like sleeping in the nude, or getting in the shower.