I had already seen him swap his shot with Gavin’s empty glass, the bastard was trying to get Gavin drunk. Tony ordered some more drinks but I caught...him on the way to the bar and told him I had to go and not to bother getting anything for me. I left to find Sue.Sue -Dave got up this morning at 6 am, I don’t know how he does it. We had quite a session on the beach last night. I kind of hoped a Fijian boy would come past and stick his finger up my bum whilst we were at it. But they must have all. .." he argues. "...but I figured I might as well get with someone attractive... because..." Listen... You can't just think with your dick, okay...? You're going to miss out on so many great options. Like... what if your soulmate is someone average looking? You might overlook them because you're too focused on trying to maximize your bedroom pleasure."Michael just stares back like a deer in headlights. "W- Yeah... I know... but..." Ugghh! Come here!" Maria angrily takes Michael's hand and pulls. That works if you can shut off the left brain and it's powerful obsession with counting costs and addressing fears. So what does that have to do with sex and specifically white hot erotic sex?Here are the three most important things we learned about that specific type of sex. 1. Erotic sex is a right brain function. It requires an edgy sense of adventure and danger. The adventure side seeks something new and outside what feels normal or routine. The danger side tends to seek out something. ’ ‘Roxy!’ Startled by her candour—and her unnerving accuracy—I forced a ‘how-could-you-even-think that?’ laugh. ‘It was just a late night, that’s all. Late night, too much wine—’ ‘And lots of sex,’ she finished triumphantly. She grinned. ‘Way to go, boss. I was starting to think that you and Drew were never going to get it on.’ Uh oh. How was I going to nip this in the bud? ‘Get it on?’ I gasped, striving for innocence. ‘Me and Drew?’ I tried another laugh, this time managing a much more.