Realizing that I really was serious, she cried and said yes.We went to city hall and found a judge. He was cheerful to be able to do a triple wedding ...nd we were pleased that he got all of our names and combinations right without a hitch.The night of our wedding, Opal Anne and I went to the hotel and made love for the first time. The bed had a big fluffy mattress and we needed the cushioning.“Husband?” Opal Anne asked after our second time. “Have you ever had sex with a woman from behind?”“No,. "If your son were kidnapped, and I found one of them, but not your son. Would you want me to do whatever it takes to get your son back or turn the man over to the police." That isn't fair? she said "Very logical and unemotional feelings don't count at a time like that." It shouldn't be fair. It's an emotional issue," I said."If that doesn't make you think enough how about this. Soldiers have a compound surrounded. They have to attack it. They need to know who is inside, and how they are armed.. ‘What’s the problem?’ I asked with a feeling of dread coming over me. The look on her face was one of intense anguish and I knew then what the problem was and it related to what I’d been ranting about when I got home from work., However, I wanted her to tell me about it. For the last several months, she and a single, fellow teacher, younger than herself, had been working together on a school project to develop curriculum for a new class on girl’s health issues. This required, she had told me,. "That's amazing. Miracles will never cease. I can't believe you're forgiving such a jerk."Shahia looked at her. "Lisa, everyone is born a jerk. I was born a jerk. Wait till you have kids of your own. It's the harsh experiences of life that teach you not to be a jerk. Some people, their parents don't teach them, and so they just have to learn later than others. At least he can learn, even if it comes hard to him. I've already forgiven him, but this way he might go and do something for orphans..