At about 11:30 we broke for lunch, and Jeremy and I walked out and across the street to the diner some of us enjoyed. We ate there often. I said hello...to Gladys, our waitress, and she smiled at us as she took our order. While waiting for the food to come I got down to brass tacks. "Listen, Jeremy. I'm going to get a little personal here. If you get uncomfortable just let me know, and I'll drop it." "I think I can handle it Sarge. If you're going to tell me you're gay, I knew that dude. It's. I knew the owner would be there at that time of day. We had graduated from high school and college together. I knew him in high school, but we had not associated with each other then. I was the nerdy kid that hung with my twin brother's friends and he was in the rich kids club. We became friends in college when I began tutoring him in math.(My twin had been held back a grade in elementary school. All of his friends were a year younger than us.)"Steve, long time no see." I yelled as I walked. Of course, Brother Dexter played an equally important role in helping me, and my fellow husbands, in being obedient to God's will for us in this regard! We were always welcome to come to Brother Dexter when we were struggling with our on-going chastity observance. In deed, most of us spent many hours alone with Brother Dexter, in his office, seeking strength and guidance and support for this very difficult path.Here's an example of what I'm talking about---When Cindy was six or seven months. “But I must be 15 years older than you”. “It doesn’t matter, I like you, Sarah is always talking about you when she is round at our house and I always remember that night when you fucked me. I really loved what we did then. “Me too” I said “Sarah filmed it remember, I watch it all the time, I always end up masturbating”. “She leaned over and kissed me, do you wanna fuck me here, right now” she asked. I stood up and took her hand, pulling her up. I put my arms around her and kissed her. I.