And that means waiting until you've figured it out yourself."Now having said all that, I think that what's apparently left of the human species can't ...fford to think of 'race' any more. If we have a large enough variety of genetic variation, it's just by the skin of our teeth. If we start dividing up into 'racial groups', none of them will be able to avoid inbreeding, except maybe the Chinese, and only if they ignore political and cultural variations."The bottom line, though, is that it's up to. She was from the Philippines, and according to her, a married woman having a boyfriend was no big deal. Dani had been going to the gym with Carol, a friend of hers also from the Philippines. After awhile she began bringing up this guy she had met at the gym, named Ron. At first I was irritated, but during sex I would ask her about Ron - was he good looking, was he buff, did he like her - things like that. I was a little surprised when I found out that Ron was African-American, and that threw me. Julie and I had been going out about two weeks now. I'd known her from school for sometime but nothing had ever happened between us. We'd gotten together nearly every night since we hooked up. We hadn't had sex yet, but it wasn't like I really needed it. She'd told me one night that her first time was a real let down. The guy she was with pretty much just broke her cherry, got himself off, and left. She didn't seem uptight about sex though, considering. Tonight she and I were just going to hang. I remember seeing the show and Jen did look somewhat like her, blonde hair, a nice figure and beautiful eyes.When I danced with another woman she asked me if Jen and I would like to come to their cabin. I nicely refused and told Jen about it later. She did say the woman's husband was a little more aggressive than some of the others. I did my best to always be honest with Jen and hoped she did the same with me. I sure the hell wasn't looking for a swap with anyone.We did tour a couple of islands.