I was happy, no question, but also wary and deeplyconfused. This was effusive and open praise. I didn?t understand what washappening or why she was sp...aking this way. She put her hand on my tinypadded bikini top. ?People think you?re cute,? I blushed as she said this.?But I want ?sexy?. I find it troubling and humiliating that peoplesometimes call you ?panty-boy? or ?sissy-boy?. I hate the ?boy? part.??I never want to embarrass you,? I was careful not to repeat her oddchoice of ?humiliate.?. A couple of hours later Justin walked in, the book slid from my hand, she was stunning. She was wearing the dress I had brought her and the personal business was clearly sessions with a hairdresser and make up artist. As she passed she took me hand and walked me out of the back exit. ‘Thank you for the dress; I have a gift for you’ She lead me to a well-maintained mansion where were greeted by two very pretty girls. ‘Meet Claire who is my mentor and Suzie who is Claire's mentor.’ We were lead. "You are mistaken, if you think you know me, woman!" Woman!!?! You're Hadji: How can you--" I said 'Silence!'" And, with one sharp jab of his splayed fingers in the air, 'Jeannie' could no longer talk."I'm being quiet! Tick a lock!" Roger said, and gestured. While the great Keeper of All the Genies was distracted, the post-natal Mama had time to slip off the bench and kowtow before him.He stared down 'Jeannie'. "I am the Hadji of a century ago--For that is who I chose to be!" his voice cracked. " We joke and sometimes the boundary between Father-Teenager and Father-Adult gets a little blurred," I said. "But you can rest assure that I never called my father a name. Or if I did you can bet it was only once. Same with my mom."Kelly and Carrie were nodding."But kids today are different," Kelly said. "We've coddled them so much. Our generation was raised with a sense of entitlement that we've expanded and passed on to our children. We're definitely doing them a disservice. I hate to think.